#MenMatterToo✊

VIBES AND FEELS Monogamy is just a social construct. We’ve been conditioned to value having one  Significant partner but for much consensual non-monogamy feels more natural. I don’t think we are supposed to be monogamous.  But why do it?  To show commitment and love for one another and to keep the conventional family unit together.  Many people believe polyandry is an orientation or identity, not simply a lifestyle, that we are hard-wired that way.  And since we are in the age where "feels and vibes" rule; I’m polyandrous and that’s my vibe and feel.  Commitment  SHOULD'NT mean suppressing your feelings or your identity for the failure of losing the one(s) you love. And as scary as that may be,  not being your authentic self, not asking for what you truly need, that’s what blows our relationship.  We end up cheating through lies; this blows up and Bad breaks up happen, the increased no of divorce, to a point it's almost endemic, f...

I'm of the opinion that one's religious beliefs, one's interaction with life and existence, one's consideration of the spiritual ought to be something personal and private for it to be sincere. The outward expression of proclaiming it is quite transactional if you think about it. "I'm a Christian and love Christ 'cause I want to get to heaven". Remove the whole aspect of heaven or everlasting hellfire and literal hell within most Christians breaks lose. That's not honesty. It makes your nobility of Christendom binary. Transactional. Too many atrocities in the history of religion to think it's infallible, that's where the mountain stands. Nothing can be infallible, even Jesus was imperfect, bursts of anger and Disobedience. And where should the line be drawn in terms of following Christ's deeds or his footsteps? And taking The Almighty God as the example, why can't we be jealous, why can't we be angry and kill our ene...

                          Unpopular Opinion. If you study the church's history and how much political and socioeconomic power it has had since the later days of emperor Constantine, you will release how much Christian dogma has fallen for those who argue that the church will stand forever. As much as it has survived every attack on its fundamental belief, with each strike, it has grown weaker, and it can only continue on this down word curve. With every scientific and technological advancement and discovery, a whole is pierced on the rib of Jesus Christ, the savior. The church has grown liberal to a point where a pope has openly supported gay marriages. The only religion that has the strength to fight liberalism is Islam. Still, it lacks the power and verve to recruit or pass its conservative dogma to countries outside the middle east as long as it remains so it will remain politically and economically stagnant...

We have fought wars since time immemorial, since the days of Australopithecus. We fought wars for our wives and kids and community in general. Wars that neither had a winner or looser.But we fought anyways .We believed in leaving a better "community"  for the people to come after us.It was an  inheritance with no will just blood.  This land, this system,this patriarchy is lined with our blood through and through. We suffer in silence,you only see our wins,but you never see the tears,the sweat and blood before victory. In fact it's been instilled in our DNA to hide it from you. We die in droves,suffering is primal, verily, we are never  worthy to stand before our peers without an ounce of ache and subsequent scars. This is true  across races,tribes and predates  the Sapiens.  Stories of killing a lion and surviving a war were & still are, highly praised. Am I sorry for patriarchy ?NO. Am I apologetic for my maleness? NEIN. I'm simply bas...

Übermensch Nothing turns off a woman more than a needy man. The one who professes instant adoration & obedience. Men do this, assuming it's how to get sex & affection. However, women reject men who can't control these needy behaviors & verbal niceties.        " A man who cannot be manipulated with sex intimidates a woman,because now she has to bring something else of real value" The blue pill conditioning,nice guy will constantly do this; deductive reasoning tells him that (if he builds her up;spend money & shower her with gifts & do what she wants instead of what he wants she will be sexual with him. "Stimulating a woman's psyche (mind) does more than money and gifts combined"  And that's messed up cause a woman isn't attracted to a man that tries to please her. She's attracted to a man that knows how to please himself (its about you ) and that makes her want to please him as well. The problem with the blue ...

Feminism was not about trashing men,it was about telling women to rise up and men to style up...but this was ineffective... It needed a villain an "enemy combatant"...and this villain needed a face. Guess what face they gave him?!! Exactly right ...The Man or Men..and just like any marvel super hero, the villain needed a name....So patriarchy became the name of the villain.Patriarchy became the  Thanos. of Feminism. So they launched attacks on "patriachy"... And over the years true feminism got lost in the raging war.Children born today,know that for you to be a true feminist you must be anti men..anti-patriachy. Your true strength is shown by attacking the biggest man or men around you directly or indirectly. The fight has gained strides,but what happened is feminity got lost,and masculinity got demonized.Now we got women,peeing while standing coz peeing while bending is patriarchal.We get women trying to be the same villain they fight so hard.Getting i...