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VIBES AND FEELS


Monogamy is just a social construct. We’ve been conditioned to value having one  Significant partner but for much consensual non-monogamy feels more natural. I don’t think we are supposed to be monogamous. 

But why do it? 

To show commitment and love for one another and to keep the conventional family unit together.

 Many people believe polyandry is an orientation or identity, not simply a lifestyle, that we are hard-wired that way. 

And since we are in the age where "feels and vibes" rule; I’m polyandrous and that’s my vibe and feel. 

Commitment  SHOULD'NT mean suppressing your feelings or your identity for the failure of losing the one(s) you love. And as scary as that may be,  not being your authentic self, not asking for what you truly need, that’s what blows our relationship.  We end up cheating through lies; this blows up and Bad breaks up happen, the increased no of divorce, to a point it's almost endemic, finally broken homes.

 Live your truth for it’s the best century to do so. Aocialism is almost out the window, right politics are ruling government and traditional conventions are out window so why not enjoy 2 or even 3 women or men truthfully instead of "creeping". Not many will understand this innate feeling cause of the years of indoctrination, most likely you will be alone but freedom doesn’t come without responsibilities or consequences.

 POLYANDRY IS MY FEEL AND VIBE, WHAT'S YOURS..?

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