THE EFFECTS OF THE BLUE PILL.

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Nothing turns off a woman more than a needy man. The one who professes instant adoration & obedience. Men do this, assuming it's how to get sex & affection. However, women reject men who can't control these needy behaviors & verbal niceties.

"A man who cannot be manipulated with sex intimidates a woman,because now she has to bring something else of real value"

The blue pill conditioning,nice guy will constantly do this; deductive reasoning tells him that (if he builds her up;spend money & shower her with gifts & do what she wants instead of what he wants she will be sexual with him.

"Stimulating a woman's psyche (mind) does more than money and gifts combined"

And that's messed up cause a woman isn't attracted to a man that tries to please her. She's attracted to a man that knows how to please himself (its about you ) and that makes her want to please him as well.

The problem with the blue pill conditioning that you have to "please" a woman is two fold, one, regardless of what society teaches men this behavior is very anti seductive, it’s a complete turn off to her; And two, it’s a form of “negotiated desire”, which makes it obligatory, you make her feel like she “HAS TO” instead of her WANTING TO, I assure you in time she will grow to harbor great resentment towards you & most likely leave you for a stronger, more centered man, or cheat.

I constantly tell guys in my circle, she should COME INTO YOUR WORLD and not the vice versa.Let her experience,the adventure and danger that is your life.

Be the damn Price brethren,make her the Price & watch, her desire for you descend to repulsion & resentment then disrespect and eventual "dumping".

Get this right,I'm not advocating for " jerkass mannerisms" I'm saying maintain your FRAME & GAME even after you two are "in the love".

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